As if things haven’t been crazy enough with Lamonte and the so called feelings we seem to still have for each other I now have to deal with his news that his son’s mother doesn’t like me. WTF? I’ve never done anything to her. Why would I? We both have children by the same person so all I was trying to do was build a friendship to make it easier for us to have the kids know each other. She seemed nice and has never been ugly to me. We talk on occasion regarding the kids and of course sometimes venting about Lamonte but overall it appeared to be a nice friendship. Then he comes to me and tells me she hates me, doesn’t even call me by my name and was just pretending to be my friend to find out information about him. According to him she has labeled me as #3 and refuses to call me by anything else. All this seemed a little crazy so I wasn’t sure whether or not to believe him but then out of the blue she deleted me from her FB account. I guess it is all true and now I must say I’m a little annoyed. I mean, if she didn’t like me why fake it? I didn’t expect us to be best friends but just thought for the kids sake we could try to get along. She was the one who reached out to me in the first place when I had Makenna. I’ll never understand why women would rather be enemies than just work together. Anyhow, rather than rant and rave about it I just wanted to write it out real quick so I can get it out of my system. I’m not going to say anything to her or treat her any differently when I see her. If she wants to hate me that’s fine but I have no ill feelings to her and I just assume keep it that way. Lamonte almost seems relieved that she doesn’t want to contact me anymore so part of me wonders if he didn’t plan this all along but who knows. Ugh! All I can say is I’m done with the drama and just going to keep concentrating on what’s important. If people want to be in our lives great, if not…there’s the door!
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